By Maternal Menace

Sleep Without the Script

Forget the script. Find your child's rhythm.

Personalized pediatric sleep consulting for real families, real children, and real-life sleep challenges. Fill out your Sleep Blueprint, get a custom plan, and coach with Samantha right in your messages.

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Good sleep changes everything

Because your child isn't a template.

Bedtime doesn't come with an instruction manual.

And the same sleep strategy won't work for every child. Sleep Without the Script by Maternal Menace provides personalized pediatric sleep consulting for families with neurotypical and neurodivergent children. We look beyond generic sleep advice to understand your child's individual needs, temperament, sensory preferences, developmental stage, and family routines.

From bedtime battles and unpredictable sleep schedules to challenges involving autism, ADHD, and sensory differences, our approach focuses on practical, individualized strategies designed to fit your child and your family's real life.

No cookie-cutter sleep plans. No judgment. Just thoughtful guidance to help your family build healthier, more sustainable sleep habits.

Because your child isn't a template. And your sleep plan shouldn't be one either.

Four steps. No guesswork.

No generic PDF. A plan built from your answers, then a real person in your messages while you make it stick.

1. Purchase & fill out your Sleep Blueprint

One payment, no subscriptions. Add your child's profile, sign the coaching agreement, and tell me about your child's sleep.

2. Log 3–7 nights in the Sleep Tracker

Quick morning entries so Samantha can see the real patterns before you meet.

3. Meet for your consultation

Talk it through together, then get a custom plan built for your actual child and your actual nights.

4. Implement with support

Message anytime, schedule a call when you'd rather talk, and adjust the plan as you go. Free sleep tools stay yours.

One simple package

Personalized Sleep Coaching

$349

One-time payment

Sleep Blueprint (your detailed intake)
Personalized written sleep plan in 24–48 hours
Messaging support while we track and adjust
Message anytime — phone or video calls are scheduled
Private portal with the Sleep Tracker

$349 — includes your Sleep Blueprint, personalized sleep plan, and messaging support while we track and adjust. Want extra 1:1 calls or support beyond that? Add them anytime. I'll quote it upfront — no surprise charges.

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Samantha (your sleep coach) ↓

Samantha Oyler, founder of Maternal Menace

She has heard worse.

I'm an AuDHD mom raising an autistic toddler son — so meltdowns, sensory stuff, and the 3am "what am I doing wrong?" aren't theory to me.

I trained through an IPSCC- and ASC-approved pediatric sleep program and have 200+ hours observing ABA, speech, and occupational therapy.

And I'll be straight with you: I bed-share. My kid fights sleep. It's better than it used to be and it works for us. There's no perfect sleep that looks the same for every family — so we build one that fits yours.

You will not be made to feel like the problem is you.

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Now let's fix your sleep.

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From the sleep blog

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Illustration of a mom and her laughing toddler cuddled in bed with a stuffed dinosaur, under the words “Our sleep isn’t perfect and that’s OK”

Parent stories · 3 min read

Our sleep isn’t perfect—and that’s okay

Samantha’s own experience: bed-sharing, a child who fights sleep, and finding what works for her family.

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Illustration of a tired mom watching her toddler play with a stuffed dinosaur at bedtime, under the words “Toddler bedtime doesn’t have to be a battle”

Toddler sleep · 4 min read

Toddler bedtime doesn’t have to be a battle

A shorter routine, a little connection, and fewer decisions can make evenings feel more manageable.

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Neurodivergence · 4 min read

Neurodivergent kids and sleep: start with what fits

Support bedtime around your child’s communication, transitions, and comfort—not someone else’s ideal night.

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Illustration of a mom and her sleeping toddler cuddled under a blanket with a stuffed dinosaur, under the words “Sensory-friendly wind-down without more stuff”

Sensory regulation · 4 min read

A sensory-friendly wind-down, without more stuff

Notice the light, sound, touch, and transitions that make bedtime easier—or harder—for your child.

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Illustration of the Denver skyline at dusk with a signpost pointing to housing, disabilities, food support, parent resources and Denver programs, under the words “Toddler sleep help for Denver families (& resource list!)”

Local resources · 4 min read

Denver family resources: help beyond sleep

A judgment-free list of Denver and Front Range programs for food, housing, benefits, disability support, childcare and more—because sleep isn’t the only hard thing.

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Illustration of a crying toddler in dinosaur pajamas lying in bed with a stuffed dinosaur, under the words “Sleep regression”

Toddler sleep · 4 min read

The 2 year old sleep regression: what’s going on and what helps

Yes, the 2 year old sleep regression is real. Here’s why it happens, how long it usually lasts, and small things that can help—without turning bedtime into a battle.

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